Meet intended parents who match your preferences
Share your story at your own pace. Never as a public listing for strangers to scroll past.
Know who you're talking to before you open up. Verified profiles and real context come first.
Intended Parents, Surrogates and Agencies see next steps tailored to their needs.
Connect directly with surrogates or parents, or work with an agency. No one decides that for you.
Tell us who you are and we’ll show you what’s waiting for you.
You decide who you connect with. Explore intended parent profiles and reach out to the families that feel right to you.
Find verified surrogates and agencies that match your location, values, and timeline. Connect privately, at your pace.
Connect with serious matches. List your agency and create profiles for your surrogates and intended parents in one place.
*Full profiles, photos, and contact details are available only to registered members.
Start with a free profile, explore your options, and connect when you are ready.
Sign up as an intended parent, surrogate, or agency. Takes 2 minutes.
Define what matters to you: location, journey type, expectations, and whether you'd like agency support.
Browse members to get a feel for who's out there before you decide to connect.
When you find the right person, message privately, ask questions, and take the next step only when you're ready.
More control and less uncertainty than traditional platforms, from your first search to your first conversation.
Browse surrogate, intended parent, and agency profiles directly, and find a match faster.
Connect directly, work with an agency, or compare both routes before deciding.
Explore our cost estimator, compensation calculator, and surrogacy checklist before you talk to anyone.
See real profiles and get the information you need before starting any conversation.
No surprises after signup. See what your account includes before choosing your next step.
Create a verified profile, set your preferences, and connect with intended parents. Completely free.
Start for free. Upgrade when you need full profile access, private messaging, or premium visibility.
Explore practical tools and guides for understanding costs, compensation, next steps, and safer conversations before you move forward.
Follow a step-by-step guide for the intended-parent journey, from early research to matching, legal steps, and next decisions.
A short quiz that shows you if you're ready to become a surrogate and what to prepare next.
Estimate potential surrogacy costs based on location, surrogacy type, and agency vs. independent path.
Get conversation prompts, safety tips, and red flags to help you communicate more carefully after you connect.
*Conversation Guide is available to registered members only.
Hear from intended parents and surrogates* who use FindSurrogate to explore matches, compare options, and move forward with more confidence.
*Photos are shown with permission from the people who provided these testimonials.
I liked being able to set my own terms and decide who I wanted to connect with. I never felt any pressure to say yes.
We liked that the surrogate profiles were verified. We didn't have to wonder if people were who they said they were, and we never felt rushed.
I messaged one person, we met, and I stopped looking. I don't know if that's normal, but it all happened in about five weeks.
I spent a few evenings just reading profiles before I contacted anyone. I liked being able to do that.
We found our match in under three months. Our first call ran long because we'd already been chatting for days.
Three couples messaged me the first week. I only replied to one. Being able to just... not reply, without anyone calling to ask why, mattered a lot.
I carried for my best friend years ago and thought I'd never do it again. I read profiles on and off for months before I finally messaged someone.
We weren't sure online matching was for us. The first three chats went nowhere. The fourth turned into a ninety-minute call, and we matched.
I could see different agencies in one place and look through the profiles of the intended parents they represented before reaching out.
FindSurrogate is an independent surrogacy matching platform that helps intended parents, surrogates, and agencies connect with more clarity, control, and confidence. We are not a traditional agency or a public directory. We make it easier to explore potential matches privately, transparently, and respectfully.
Learn MoreFindSurrogate is a private surrogacy matching platform for intended parents, surrogates, and agencies. Members create a profile, explore relevant member profiles, and connect when they are ready.
No. FindSurrogate is a matching platform, not a surrogacy agency. We do not manage medical procedures, legal agreements, or surrogacy coordination. We give you the tools to find and connect with the right people.
Full profiles and photos are available only to registered members. You choose when to share your personal contact information.
FindSurrogate connects intended parents, surrogates, and agencies across the U.S. and Canada, including individuals, couples, and LGBTQ+ intended parents.
Yes. Profiles stay private by default, and members can verify their identity through Stripe Identity to earn a verification badge. You control what you share, who you contact, and when you share your contact information. FindSurrogate was developed in line with ASRM recommendations.
A surrogacy matching platform helps intended parents and surrogates find each other through member profiles instead of being assigned a match by an agency. Members set their preferences, browse profiles, and choose who to contact. FindSurrogate is one example, with profiles visible only to registered members.
Join FindSurrogate to explore verified profiles, connect privately, and plan your surrogacy journey. Free to start.
